Domestic violence is the abuse of power in a relationship
that leads to a pattern of coercive control. Abuse and coercion can
be physical, emotional, sexual, or economic. Each abusive act builds
on the others. Domestic abuse can be carried out by a partner, significant
other, or family member. Physical abuse is the form of domestic violence
that is most often identified. Emotional abuse, however, often is considered
by victims to be the most damaging and long lasting.
Examples of abuse include:
Name calling or put downs Threats Intimidation Isolation from family and friends Harassment or stalking Economic control Sexual coercion or assault Physical violence
Other early signs of dating violence:
Is your partner jealous and possessive of your time with others? Does your partner try to control you by being bossy and making most
of your decisions? Does he or she threaten to spread rumors about you? Does your partner pressure you for sex or unwanted sexual acts?
Getting Help
We at SSIS can offer emotional support and counseling. You can contact
us via the phone 781-736-3695, coming to the office, or by emailing
us at ssis@brandeis.edu. However,
because we are not professionals, we advise that you do seek further
professional help and advise. We can offer many referrals for psychological
and medical advice.
Contacts
Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center: 617-667-8141
Waltham Battered Women's Committee: 781-891-0724
Boston Gay and Lesbian Alliance: 617-267-7413 or 617-265-0348
Brandeis Psychological Counseling Center 781-736-3730 (On-campus: x63730)
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